My Nigerian boyfriend and myself are in his village. He's taking me to the family altar/shrine. He's showing me around, I come across these beautiful hand carved stone & wood work. I believe that they are deities within their spirituality, within their religion. One is made of marble and the other is made of a beautiful wood. It becomes nightfall on a full moon and I look up I'm in a cemetery/graveyard and I'm walking past something reflective and I see myself in this beautiful black wedding gown with a corset waist white hair and I look up the way and I see my Nigerian boyfriend and he's crying, he's happy, he's overjoyed and I'm exstatic, I'm anxious but in a good way, I'm feeling blessed. I do have a little twinge of sadness because the passing of my mother & father and him not being able to walk me down the aisle however in that moment it's like my boyfriend's father can feel that and sense that emotion. He comes to Usher me down the aisle. He's happy, he's smiling. Onto the side of my boyfriend I see his mom's grave her headstone and it is of that beautiful wood. I look to where I'm walking to where I'll be standing in front my husband to be and I see the ghosts of my mother and father happy tears of joy and I look to my husband to me and standing beside him is his mother tears of joy and a smile on her face and we are married under a full moon on Halloween
This dream appears to be a representation of union, spirituality, and the presence of loved ones who have passed away. The setting in your Nigerian boyfriend's village suggests an exploration of his cultural and spiritual background. The altar/shrine symbolizes a connection to his heritage and the hand-carved deities represent the spirituality within his family's religion. This could indicate a deeper understanding and appreciation of his traditions and beliefs.
The transition to nightfall and the full moon in a cemetery signifies a shift in the dream's atmosphere. The reflective object and seeing yourself in a black wedding gown with a corset waist suggests a personal transformation or growth. This transformation may be related to feelings of blessedness, joy, and excitement, which are represented by your boyfriend's emotional reaction.
The twinge of sadness regarding the passing of your parents and not being walked down the aisle by them reflects a longing for their presence on this special occasion. However, the appearance of your boyfriend's father symbolizes support, guidance, and a sense of being welcomed into the family.
The presence of the ghosts of your parents and your boyfriend's mother signifies their spiritual presence and blessings on your marriage. Their tears of joy indicate their happiness for you both.
Getting married under a full moon on Halloween further adds a sense of magic and enchantment to the dream. It may represent a unique and transformative chapter in your life, further emphasizing the spiritual and meaningful nature of the union.
Overall, this dream portrays a blend of personal growth, cultural exploration, and the presence and blessings of loved ones in your life. It suggests a celebration of spirituality, love, and heritage.